Single or In Relation

People with curly hair like to have straight hair and straight haired ones like to have curly. People who are single usually don't want to be and people who are involved often wish they were single again. Grass is always greener on the other side means we like what we don’t have. Similar is the case in relationship status. I urge you to look at the positive side of your relationship status regardless of what it may be.
It is easy to get into a relationship but to sustain it with the same passion and dedication is the tough part. There are many factors that impel one to fall in love at first sight. You may call it imagination or even intuition when you fall in love at the very first sight without even knowing a person properly. The main factors that often lead to love at first sight are like gestures, voice, hair, smile, smell and appearance. Misunderstanding is the notable cause for this. It’s not worthwhile to fall in love at first sight looking person’s physical looks and attributes instead nature and qualities should be known. A question often arises these days that what’s the ways to find whether its love and lust. A loving relationship is one which is based on selflessness and thoughtfulness unlike a lustful relationship which is marked by selfishness and thoughtlessness. A relationship based on love wants to last longer. If the love initially fades away then that’s lust. It can be called love when the spouse decides to marry his/her mate in future. There is a possibility that lust exists in a loving relationship, the opposite though is not quite possible.
Either single or in a relationship there are pros and cons. I would like to add some pros of being single. Time to spend with friends and family, comfortable sleep during the bed since no one will be there to hit you in the face with their elbow, own choice of eating and drinking, own decision where you want to go and with whom you want to pass time i.e. no necessary of taking permissions. Similarly on the contrary, some positive sides of being in relationship/marriage are: No loneliness i.e. you can go some places with your beloved or lover, help can be taken from the partner in any works, you have someone who cares you when you are sick and even scratch the back when you feel itching, sharing of life’s problems with the one who knows you the best etc.
Many of us may be enjoying the ongoing relation and few of us may be worried of getting the relation perilous. Perhaps all of has had the experience of broken relationships at least once in our life. Broken relationships are mostly painful as it is associated with a broken heart or a faltered soul and tearful eyes. Relationships are very sensitive in nature. They can be joined easily at the beginning but to keep that unhurt, respected and dignified is the main challenge. For an example, at college in the beginning days of our bachelor classes, a girl of my class got infatuated upon a boy who had good oratory skills and possessed adequate knowledge. Both got closer with each other with the passage of time. Within a week, they went on dates. Later, due to small misunderstanding their delicate relation came to an end. These are the real issues found commonly in almost all the colleges varying cases from few to many.
What is needed in such relationships is trust of each other, faith, feeling of respect, few common grounds of passion, allowance of liberty in some cases and above all love, that is not to show but to help in day to day life as a guide and co-traveler in journey which you have to test yourself.